Monday, December 30, 2013

Asian Guys, Build Your Self Confidence

For every 12 male Chinese births, there are 10 female Chinese births. This means that there will be 2 Chinese men who will be without a potential Chinese mate for every 10 female Chinese births. By 2020, it is estimated that 24 million Chinese men will end up without a female Chinese partner.

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"What if I'm [insert any Asian ethnicity other than Chinese]?", you ask. Sorry, yellow brotha, you didn't win the lottery. This gender disparity not only applies to the Chinese, but to many other Asian people as well.

So, as 2013 is coming to an end and 2014 just around the corner, you're probably wondering what new year's resolution you should entertain. "Should I set the same goal that I did last year of losing 20 pounds even though I gained 10 pounds this year?",  "should I master the 'Royals' tune on the guitar that my dad got me this Christmas?", or "should I find a job paying me $50k?" Shit, if you get that job, hook a brotha from another motha up! I'm literally broke as we speak! Anyway, these are all viable options. But let me suggest another one:

"Should I retire my right hand and get a girlfriend? I mean, I don't want to be one of the 500 giga-billion single Asian men who will end up without a female Asian partner for the rest of my life!!" If this thought crosses your mind, please read on.

So, as a single Asian guy looking forward to the new year, how can you position yourself in the dating world?


"Why Should I Develop My Self-Confidence?"
Self-confidence is a universal trait that all men, regardless of skin color, should possess in order to successfully attract a mate. Females consistently rate confidence high up on the what-guys-should-have list just like how Warren Buffett is consistently rated as the top 5 wealthiest individuals on the planet.

Self confidence is also a foundational trait in the dating world. Self-confidence serves as a basis that permeates to other "game" factors, such as better eye contact, more frequent smiling, confident postures, and more fluid conversations. Self-confidence is so powerful that it can overshadow someone who looks like a bum, to some degree.

My Self-Confidence Story
Ever since I was young, I had thought that I was the best man for any woman (Brad Pitt still got nothing on me!). I remember sitting in the shotgun seat of my mom's car, thinking about life and relationships, when I proclaimed to her that "I would be the best man and father any woman can want." Call me cocky, but I truly believed that I was worthy of any woman.

My steadfast belief carried over to my "game" (even though I had absolutely none). I believed that I could get any girl I wanted, so I went about hitting on all kinds of attractive women. One was 6 inches taller than I was. Another was Middle Eastern. Then, I met a beautiful, taller Black woman, and the rest is history.

"So, How Can I Develop My Self-Confidence?"
My way of developing self-confidence may differ from those of professionals. But, hey, it works for me, so it may work for you! Plus, it's rigid simple! Here it is:

Instill in your mind the mentality that goes something like this: "I CAN GET ANY GIRL I WANT" and/or "EVERY GIRL IS IN MY LEAGUE". That's it! 

"How does this even work?" you might ask. It all starts with the way you think and approach a situation. Remember the Little Engine That Could? It kept telling itself, "I think I can, I think I can", and eventually overcame an enormous obstacle and succeeded in accomplishing a big challenge. Once you think you can, it crushes many, if not all, of the negative self-talk and self-doubt swirling around in that big noggin' of yours. Your mind turns on its creative switch, and it figures out ways to get you that pussy that you've always wanted.

P.S. - Here are some resources that you might want to delve into further:

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